I was so thrilled when the cooler temps this Spring finally gave way to the promise of Summer. As usual, I overdid it a little bit, imagining the days and evenings my family would enjoy outdoors. We sealed the deck, set up the gazebo, and spent way too much money on flowers. Flowers are beautiful!! But, when they are in pots in full sun on the back deck, they require a lot of TLC. I had an outdoor routine every morning that culminated in watering the plants. No problem! It would be a beautiful summer.
…And then it got hot. Really hot. The kind of hot that fogs up my glasses and makes me irritable. I didn’t want to be outside. …And my routines changed due to some unforeseen circumstances. …And I got pretty busy… The flowers hung in there for a while. But after neglect increased and we were gone from home, the damage was done. The hanging baskets didn’t survive. Some of the pots on the deck were in critical condition. The perennials marched stubbornly on, declaring their independence.
I realized that this was a great metaphor for life. So many times we start off great, but get derailed by a change in circumstances. How many times have you had to restart a diet, exercise regimen, financial plan, DIY project, or other undertaking because you got off track?
Coaching can help! With someone in your corner, helping you set goals and priorities, you can accomplish all of those things you’ve been meaning to do, and set in motion the actions that will lead you to the life you want. It shouldn’t be this hard. It doesn’t have to be.
Your Partner In Spiritual Health,
Melissa
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Hi, my name is Melissa Ebken, and I'm so glad you found your way here.
I am at home in the difficult spaces of peoples’ lives, willing to listen and to support those who work to grow themselves. I am a trained coach and have consulted with churches in conflict. Not your stereotypical minister, I embrace the Gospel with joy and laughter as I seek to help those around me grow in faith and understanding, always striving to leave people better than they came. An agent of wholeness, I create a safe space for people, especially those who have been marginalized, where they can understand how ridiculously loved and valued they are by God/Higher Power/Spirit, and to experience the difference that makes in life.
I started the Pursuing Uncomfortable Podcast to share the stories of people who have faced life's most difficult challenges, to inspire you to lean into and overcome your own. It's helpful to know that you're not alone in your struggles and to see how others have navigated similar circumstances. You can listen to it here.
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