Work With Me

Work With Me

Hi there!

Would you like some support as you build a mature and vital faith that serves you and the challenges you face today?

I'm Melissa, an Author, Pastor, and Podcaster with over 20 years experience working with people to become grounded in their spiritual beliefs and practices, grow their self-awareness, and overcome difficult and uncomfortable situations and experiences. I am an experienced pastor, trained in Bowen Theory, and certified in Transformative Mediation.

How can I help you?


I work one-to-one with you to grow your spirituality in the nine elements of spiritual health and overcoming obstacles.



Be a part of this program that grows your emotional intelligence through my Transcendence Process, built on the 8 concepts of Bowen Theory.



I do Transformative Mediation with organizations and groups experiencing conflict to bring them to resolution and growth. 


End Your Struggle with Anxiety

My Free Guide takes you step by step through a journey that can help you lessen your anxiety and grow your resilience.

Resources for you

Get a fresh take on how this ancient prayer that Jesus taught has radical implications for us today.


Visit the Spirit Health blog, read our articles, and learn how to live the purposeful life you were created for.


Our online courses support you as you build a mature and vital faith that serves you and the challenges you face.


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For a fresh take on spiritual health and faith, subscribe to the Friday Newsletter. Each Friday you will receive insights on the spiritual journey, shared in Melissa's unique style. Click the button to subscribe

Hear from happy clients...

Melissa has been instrumental in opening my eyes and heart and letting go of anger.


I've coached with Melissa over an extended period of time, and I have always made great progress through her coaching. She is compassionate and creative in her approach. She is an attentive listener and always "feels" present as we think together. I highly recommend Melissa as a coach!


I recently accepted the opportunity to do the ‘Fit to Forgive’ seminar online hosted by Pastor Melissa Ebken and Shihan Amy Giles with Progressive Kenpo Karate. What a revelation to combine our spiritual world with our physical world in such an enlightening and very practical way. The tools each provided during the program were more beneficial than I could have imagined.  I have already started to apply the wisdom and techniques in my personal life and I really want to share this with my family and others. It helped me to realize who I am spiritually, and others as well. And it helped me to understand how I can physically help my spirit and body to become more fit. This was explained so well and is very easy to comprehend. I definitely recommend that others take this opportunity too! We’re never too old or young to gain a better understanding of how we can manage in the day to day when we have a resource like this! Thank you Melissa and Amy!


Healthcare is a rewarding yet challenging occupation; this program provides insight regarding how to maintain a healthily balance. An invaluable aspect is learning to delve beyond the human confines and learn to draw from our higher self for strength and guidance on a daily basis. Melissa does a great job providing guidance and understanding of such a valuable topic!”


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